Flowers can convey a message and bring out emotions in almost anyone. They often have symbolism and meaning. They can be used as a communication tool! This makes my PR heart flutter; it combines two of my passions.
Did you know that there is a language of flowers? It’s called floriography! Although it was incredibly popular during the Victorian age in Europe, many meanings carry on through to today.
Here is a list of flowers representing the months of the year. What plant(s) are said to be for your birthday month?
January – Carnation and Snowdrop
Carnations are typically white, pink, purple, yellow or red. This beautiful flower symbolizes fascination, deep love and happiness. Snowdrops are white and represent hope. They both symbolize admiration and rebirth.
February – Violet and Primrose
Violets are various shades of purple, blue and white and they symbolize faithfulness, purity, young love and modesty. Primrose represents a yearning and the saying “I can’t live without you.”
March – Daffodil
Daffodils are yellow and they mean cheerfulness, respect, prosperity, new beginnings and wishes granted. However, they also may represent unrequited love.
April – Daisy and Sweet Pea
Daisies come in a variety of colors. This bright bloom stands for innocence, youth, gentleness, loyal love and purity. Sweet Pea means farewell in a gentle way. They both represent blissful pleasure.
May – Lily of the Valley and Hawthorn
The lily of the valley is white and it stands for fertility, humility and the return of happiness. Hawthorn trees have small white flowers and red berries; they represent hope.
June – Rose and Honeysuckle
Roses bloom in a variety of colors like pink, white, red or yellow. This classic flower means love and devoted affection. Honeysuckle symbolizes happiness, generosity and the saying, “I love you.”
July – Larkspur and Water Lily
This linear whimsical flower blooms in pink, blue, lavender or white. The larkspur stands for an open heart, good luck, positivity and laughter. Water Lilies represents purity of the heart.
August – Gladiolus and Poppy
The gladiolus flower blooms on long spikes in red, pink, white, yellow or purple. This flower symbolizes beauty, strength of character and family. Poppies represent eternal sleep and imagination.
September – Aster and Morning Glory
Aster blooms in a variety of colors and symbolizes daintiness, joy and life. On the contrary, morning glory flowers represent unrequited love and mortality. Both flowers represent affection.
October – Calendula and Cosmos
The calendula flower is light orange and symbolizes passion, excellence, grace and creativity. They are also called marigolds and are actually considered a sacred flower to some! Marigolds also have symbolism around grief and jealousy. Cosmos have small blooms and bright colouring. They represent peace and tranquility.
November – Chrysanthemum
Chrysanthemum colors range from red, yellow, shades of pink, white and purple. This flower symbolizes has meanings based on colour, but all represent sensitivity, compassion, cheerfulness and rest. Also called mums, they all symbolize a wonderful friend. Red mean “I love you.” White represent truth, and yellow, unfortunately, represent a neglectful love.
December – Poinsettia and Holly
Poinsettia flowers have large red petals with wide green leaves. This bloom symbolizes celebration, wealth, success and overall good cheer. Holly represents protection, foresight, domestic happiness and defense.
It may be summer and most flowers may be in bloom, but we’re still in a pandemic.
Garden centres had a late start to their prime season in Ontario due to provincial COVID-19 restrictions. Many gardeners had been itching to get their supplies for the spring and summer when centres across the province opened up on May 8. I’d like to share with you my experiences of gathering plants, pots, soil and seeds. Filled with anxiety, I first made an online order with Bradford Greenhouses. This garden centre is where I have exclusively shopped for my gardening needs since the initial March lockdowns. I have now physically entered the greenhouse twice too.
An aside about my lifestyle since March:
During my quarantine, I have been hiding away in my parents basement from the outside world and sticking to my small subdivision for walks and bike rides. I have had high stress and am honestly terrified of everything that enters the house. We’ve probably gone through an overly excessive amount of soap and sanitizer due to my anxiety. I’ve made textile masks for my family, my dad’s co-workers and neighbours. I have been in school full-time and more recently started a remote part-time job as well. Luckily I’ve had my boyfriend, Angad, with me. He is also working from home, and he keeps us company. My family of three now can play board games in teams! My dad has been the primary errand runner for the family; he is an essential worker and is in town already. My mom has been going out when her hip is okay (she’s due for a replacement this month!).
I wanted to compare my three experiences for you. This will show the development of my trust, but also of how the world overall is also operating differently as time goes on.
April 28 – Online Order
My mom and I submitted an order online for seeds and dirt. I’ve used curbside pickup for other businesses, but they had pre-Covid experience with this selling method. It was quite honestly a painful process to get our items from the ordering stage to the pickup time. I must give them credit, they’re dealing with live goods and did not have online ordering prior to April, 2020. There were growing pains. I’ve read many comments on Bradford Greenhouse’s socials, and it appears that they have become more efficient as they have gained more experience (and less people using curbside pickup overall). The site was originally incredibly glitchy – the search functions didn’t work well yet and the order was deleted multiple times before it was submitted.
When my mom and I arrived to collect our order, their signage in the parking lot was off and there was a lot of disorganization. There ended up being 40 cars sporadically parked in a side lot. Nobody seemed to know where exactly to go. It was potentially dangerous with staff scurrying between cars. I will say that their use of a QR code was convenient – once someone came to the driver’s window, they just scanned our emailed copy to locate our order. One staff member was “going hard”- he was running back and forth from the soil to the greenhouse to the customers. Many others were sauntering and chatting, which didn’t seem to help the speed of service. In total it took around 40 minutes to collect our order, even though we had been allocated specific timeslot.
One of the funniest things was that they pushed a huge garden cart over with only a paper bag of seeds inside for us to take and put in the trunk. They had helped other customers load their cars even with small items, but they left the cart for us at the back of the vehicle between other cars. They could have passed it through the window like they did with the receipt. The bag was smaller than a Wendy’s takeout bag!
This was the first time I entered any store since March. It was a big step for me! As you can see above, they had a lot of health and well-being precautions in place. This made me feel more comfortable visiting the greenhouse. My boyfriend came along for the ride, but he stayed in the car. With my mask on, I went in (picture a superhero suiting up for battle). I also refrained from bringing a purse with me; I planned on just using my pockets so I could wash my clothes then shower as soon as I got back home.
At the entrance, they had an employee give me a sanitized cart and another put sanitizer on my hands – off to a good start! People were generally spread out and the carts helped people from getting too close to each other. I realized pretty quickly that couples were there together. Angad probably could have come inside, but at least he had some quiet time away from me for once!
Plants were well-stocked and they had their expected patio designs set up too with outdoor decor. The store was sectioned off more to direct people along. For example, their clothing area (Lilie’s Boutique) was closed and you could only move to the cashiers from the back of the main building. Typically, you can move freely and join a line after looking through the boutique or the tropicals section on the sides.
I picked up a variety of small purple plants for our patio planters and a large philodendron (a tropical plant). It took me about 30 minutes to shop then about 10 more to check out. They had many tills open, so that helped keep customers moving through. They had nicely branded circles to tell shoppers where to go or where to line up.
At the tills you’d put your cart in an area near the cashier and then you stayed behind a divider cord. To pay, they would hold a debit/credit machine on a long stick over so you could reach it. The cashiers worked in teams of two. Both of the girls working to check me out were lovely – they even complimented my outfit. My skirt had pockets, so who would blame them?
Overall it was a good experience and I felt comfortable picking out my plants to make my purchase.
July 4 – Second In-Store Shopping Experience
I recently went in to pick up some items for my mother’s birthday. She turned 65 on July 4, and Angad and I went last minute to get her some more gift items. She recently repainted the bench on our front porch a light bluish grey colour. We got her some palm printed outdoor cushions that match our avocado-coloured front door. They have zippers and are washable, so they meet her requirements, and they look cute! Angad did a great job of picking them out.
We also picked up an insect hotel – I think this is Angad’s favourite gift out of everything we gave her. Hopefully it’ll help get bees, butterflies and other insects to come help the ecosystem of our home garden.
Something I noticed during this second trip was the loosening of COVID-19 protocol. At the entrance, there was no one greeting us. There was a small sign of where the “sanitized” carts were, but I totally saw a woman return a cart there though. I avoided that one and hoped for the best. Inside there was a table set up with a spray bottle that said “sanitizer” and there were a few rolls of paper towel. I wasn’t sure if it was safe to spray on hands and arms or if it was intended to clean your own cart. There wasn’t a staff member to ask at the table, but I just put my own sanitizer from my pocket bottle on and kept moving.
There were many couples and small families inside. Less masks were worn – I’d estimate under half the people inside were wearing one. Angad and I wore masks I had made at home. The tills also had one person handling the processing, product sorting, bagging and payment. At the exit there were carts scattered around; a staff member had taken the cart from me to sanitize immediately during my first in-store visit. I wasn’t a fan of the relaxation of safety initiatives, but I made sure we took our own precautions still. Although the case count isn’t reported to be high in the Barrie area, there’s a lot of people coming through from the GTA (a hot spot for COVID-19) on their way to and from cottages, other outdoor spaces like beaches and various summer activities. People from Barrie might not have been tested and be secretly carrying the virus too.
Further Plant Needs
I’m pretty set for the season, so I probably won’t need to go back until mid-August. Luckily my houseplants are doing well and most of our outdoor plants at home are perennials (they regrow year after year). My mom also went a couple of times to Bradford Greenhouses and has picked up other supplies at the grocery store too like annuals for the big outdoor gardens. She had similar experiences. I know some other gardening businesses are selling online-only or closing in July once the big push of the season is over, like Belgian Nursery in Breslau.
I’d like to know what your experiences have been like! Comment or #wellgrownhome on social media to share your garden centre trips.
Every day we make decisions that have the potential to make someone else’s day. Acts of kindness may be extraordinary or straightforward, but still are meaningful to those on the receiving end. It can also make you feel good to be the reason for someone’s smile. We often give and receive flowers on important days, like graduations, recitals, weddings, funerals, birthdays, holidays, etc., but ordinary days lead to the flowers having a more substantial impact.
The core result from performing acts of kindness is that someone is cared about and, ultimately, know that they matter.
Giving flowers is a common way (and a great way!) to spread some love. I recently received a bouquet of flowers unexpectedly, and they were so beautiful! It brightened my day when they arrived. It meant a lot that someone went out of their way to make sure I knew I was appreciated. Time, money and effort went into my flower delivery.
When giving flowers, some people opt for the cut varieties and bouquets. Others may choose to give someone a living plant. I believe it is important to think about the person who will be receiving the flowers. Will they have the energy and space to maintain a living plant? Will they have a party where they can display a bouquet on the table? If you’re sending them to a busy mother, maybe she would prefer the beauty of cut flowers without having to care for another tiny living being.
PSA: Be sure to check potted plants for pests before you buy them or give them away. One year for Valentine’s Day, my dad bought my mom a red rose bush and me a pink one. There were aphids galore!! They ended up destroying some other plants we had nearby in the house too. I still loved my roses for as long as I had the chance to appreciate them though!
Whatever choice you make, it still can make someone else have a more wonderful day. I think the best thing to do is to support a local business, but there are many ways to find and order flowers.
If you’re located near Barrie, check out any of these florist’s shops:
The best thing is that it is relatively easy to find flowers. If you don’t have time for delivery or want something quick without an order, you can find bouquets and small potted plants all over – even in the core of Toronto. Check out markets, grocery stores, convenience stores or home stores (think of The Home Depot, Canadian Tire or IKEA).
Flowers can act as a motivator to keep up the great work or to hold on when life gets extra tough. They act as a little boost that goes a long way! If you are able, I suggest you send some flowers this month to someone you care about and let them know that they are on your mind. Maybe, just maybe, they will pass along the kindness too.
This next piece is more of a P.S. or tidbit of the day:
An interesting perspective from Kimoni was shared to me through a message from one of my colleagues and friends, Orode Uwawah. I will warn you – his other posts are not related to plants and are NSFW. In this video, he compares having plants to being in relationships – both require care and dedication. While I agree with most of his points, I disagree with some. He starts the video talking about a woman who doesn’t want men to give her flowers because she doesn’t want to take care of them. Kimoni associates this statement with her not having time for him either. I think it’s valid for someone to not want plants depending on the effort they have to put in, but it would depend on the priorities of that individual. If they have a genuinely busy schedule and cannot handle sharing attention to anyone or thing other than themselves, then that would cause me concern as a potential suitor. However, if someone simply has no interest in plants, then that does not mean they can’t be a great romantic partner or friend.
Let me know what you think. Do you like receiving flowers? If so, do you prefer cut flowers or live plants?
Don’t forget to tag @wellgrownhome on Instagram or #wellgrownhome and #WGHlove on any socials. You can share with us your favourite bouquets!
Well-Grown Home started out as an Instagram account before it grew into a blog. Instagram can be a great source for inspiration, but following accounts is the best way to start finding new ideas from fresh perspectives.
I’ve compiled a brief list to start your journey into following more plant parents.
Check out who they’re following and who they share too – then you’ll create a whole web of connections and potential plant friends!
Explore this fabulous blogger’s Brooklyn adventures through a plant-lover’s lens. Not only are their pictures perfectly lit and overflowing with life, their smile can brighten up your day. While some ‘grammers post with minimal text, Christopher’s captions are fun, genuine and informative!
Taking plant loving to the next level, Judith is the author of Plant Tribe and founder of Urban Jungle Blog. Her light and bright feed is full of pastel colours and vibrant plants. Check out Judith’s trio of black cats too that wander around her home and into her photos. She’s certified on Instagram, and in my books as a plant fanatic!
If you’re interested in learning more about house plants, read Darryl’s informative posts. If you want some more deep reading, check out his book, “The New Plant Parent.” From speaking engagements to writing to YouTube videos… Darryl answers your plant questions across many platforms!
If you prefer plants in all shades of green, then this is the account for you. Andrea’s plants are plentiful and is great at staging them from the ceiling, on shelving and in terrariums. The neutral tones give Andrea’s photos an authentic fresh feel.
Nugie is an Indonesian plant parent whose positivity comes through in his love for sharing plants. Whether it’s a plant found on a walk or a leafy beauty in his home, Nugie just wants to show it to the world!
This page will tickle you pink with it’s lovely bohemian vibes. Sarah is a huge fan of Variegated Monstera. Look to see her puppy and turtle amongst the majestic plants. Oh, and I can’t forget – her bathtub is #goals!
This is a feed with unique plants and cute home decor. You’ll be able to see her own content and featured posts from other plant lovers too. If you are dreaming of a home bursting with life, you’d definitely find some inspiration here. Check out her Amazon suggestions too!
A college-aged plant lover’s idol and a succulent fanatic’s best friend – this page is full of positivity… and hundreds of small tropical plants. Check out the cool designs and arrangements filled with unique and popular succulents. Her captions are motivational too!
Are you an Instagram user who posts about plants? Whether its a regular occurrence or just occasional, tag @wellgrownhome or use either #wellgrownhome or #WGHlove so I can find your page! You can read about my plant background in my roots and see some of my Instagram posts below. Happy scrolling!
Use t-shirt yarn or other string to make an easy DIY plant hanger! It’s a perfect weekend project that can help you reuse an old shirt, reduce waste and brighten up your living space. Don’t have t-shirt yarn and want some? Use an old shirt and follow these instructions. If you want a light plant that cascades beautifully over the sides of the pot, here are some great suggestions from Posh Pennies!
Cut eight strips about the length of your arm lay them out with all ends flush to each other.
Measure five inches from the ends and tie in one big knot. Make sure it’s tight!
There’s your tassel bottom.
Divide the long ends into groups of two.
Measure two inches from the big knot and tie each pairing in a separate knot.
Now, there should be five knots total in your hanger.
Next, take one string from each pairing and put it together with one string of the pair next to it.
There should be only two strings in each knot, except the first big one.
Measure six inches from the second round of knots for each new pair and tie a new knot.
There should be nine knots total.
If you have a larger pot you can repeat for another set of knots another five to six inches from your second round.
Get your potted plant (be sure it’s not too heavy!).
Place it on top of the first tassel knot.
Gather the ends of your yarn and spread the newly created netting around the base of the pot.
Be careful to not hurt your plant!
Tie the top strings in a big tight knot and hang where you wish.